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Saturday, September 13, 2014

My Birth Story

I was originally due August 2, though my doctor said he thought August 5 was more accurate. Either way, I knew that since I was a first-time mama that I would probably go past said due date. At my last doctor's appointment on July 31 I was informed that my doctor would be on vacation during all of the next week, but if I didn't deliver then that I was scheduled for an induction for August 11.

At first I dreaded the fact that my doctor was going on vacation because that was an indicator in my mind that my baby would make her appearance since it was inconvenient. But, nope! The next week passed by horribly slow, and little Emma wasn't budging. I was so, so nervous about going in for an induction, but I am glad how it worked out.

The day before my induction there was a super moon, meaning the moon was really close to Earth and was really bright. There is an old wives' tale that says the super moon helps women go into labor. I was really hoping this was true as I wanted to go into labor naturally. Alas, still nothing. But, an hour before Phil and I were to head to the hospital we got a phone call saying that because of said super moon, the hospital's labor and delivery was packed and my induction needed to be pushed back. I was so upset – why couldn't that of happened to me! And we had to wait even longer! The phone call took place at 6:30 a.m., and we were asked to call back at 11 a.m. to see if there was a spot open. Thankfully, there was, and we set out to the hospital and got checked in at 11:45 a.m.

(Right before we headed to the hospital)

After settling into our room we found out we still hadn't had any progress whatsoever, so I was to take half a dose of cytotec (a cervix-softening pill) every four hours and go from there. They hooked me up to monitor the baby's heartbeat and my contractions – which surprisingly I was having, but I couldn't feel them. The rest of the day passed by and we were still on square one. The next day I woke up and could actually feel contractions, though they were very light, and they slowly got stronger as the day went. However, they were still inconsistent, so the doctor said to just keep taking the cytotec. At this point I was feeling really antsy about being cooped up in the hospital, so my mom suggested walking around the hospital grounds, which we did. It was nice to get a breath of fresh air. On Wednesday, August 13, at 2:30 a.m. the contractions got to the point where they were bothering me enough that I couldn't sleep, so I was given some painkiller through the IV. It made me feel loopy, but I felt a lot better afterward. My nurse decided to check my cervix at that point and I was 1 cm dilated. I was disappointed, but at least progress was being made. She made the call to stop giving me cytotec and said that hopefully the doctor will start me on pitocin later that morning. In the end, I was on cytotec for 36 hours. 

(Impatiently waiting for something to happen)

At 7 a.m. my doctor approved the pitocin, and I was given a small dose of it through my IV. I was feeling the contractions again, so I was given the same painkiller and fell back asleep. I woke up a bit later and the contractions had gotten even more intense to the point where I could not easily talk or walk through them and soaking in a hot shower didn't help. I asked for an epidural at 11 a.m. It worked perfectly the first time around, and I felt completely happy again. My day nurse checked my cervix at this point, and I had dilated to a 4! She said since it looked like I was progressing so quickly now, there really wasn't a point to keep me on pitocin, which pleased me. It was interesting to watch my contractions on the monitor intensify though I couldn't feel a thing. At 2 p.m. she checked me again and I was at a 10 and ready to push, though they had to break my water first. I pushed with just the nurse, Phil, and my mom there for three hours, but the baby wouldn't come out. My doctor came in at that point and gave me two options: he could deliver this baby either with forceps or by c-section. Since the baby was still as healthy as can be, I opted for the forceps. It only took three more pushes and, with the help of said forceps, Emma came out and was completely covered in meconium (her own bowel movement). Her cord was quickly cut by the doctor, and she was whisked away to get all of that gunk off of her and out of her system. 

I received a second-degree tear, but overall, I think that everything went very smoothly, though a bit too long for my liking. Phil exceeded my expectations and was an amazing coach the whole time. I think I fell in love with him even more because of it. Emma is perfect, she latched on immediately, and I am recovering pretty well. Phil and I am so excited to have her in my life! My pregnancy ended up going for about 41.5 weeks, and I gained 38 lbs. 

(Four weeks postpartum)